Life lessons from babies’ bags.

Yesss  …. You can learn life lessons anywhere – from a motivational book, your own experiences or from anywhere. But if you want to change your beliefs or you need concrete proofs of our basic nature long forgotten because of inappropriate conditioning by so called elders, spend ample time with a baby who’s not so conditioned to meet the society’s expectations and still enjoys FREEDOM.

Here’s a list i had concrete proofs of :

– Dance to your own tune : It’s common among us but as we grow we become slave to others. Babies always create their own tune and dance freely whenever they want to.

– Obstacles as growing blocks : I deliberately create obstacles with my legs to see what will my baby do and to my surprise instead of retreating, she actually used it to reach the top of the table. Interesting, how we adults see obstacles as obstacles only that’s why we fail to grow.

–Speak less but speak effectively : Babies can coo or babble or make any other sound yet they remain silent but when they speak everyone’s eyes, ears all on them. Effectiveness of speaking less which increases the value of words or human.

–Enjoy every season to the fullest (100%) : Babies live without barriers, they fall one time cry as hard as they can and smile the other, almost losing their sanity. We cry … Almost fearful for showing tears, hide them and one day those stagnant emotions throw us in depression. So, cry as hard as you can and smile as louder as you want to. Let other be jealous of how expressive you are.

–Unconditional love (even when someone hurt or hate you) : Babies hold no grudge for anyone therefore they have clear flow of universal energy that keep them energetic whole day and obvious that’s why we call them ‘Gods’.

–Try, try but never cry : Babies try a lot, fall, then keep trying till they hold expert in it. We have long forgotten this trial and error technique. Get it back to live better.

–Exploiting opportunities to the fullest : Whenever my baby has an opportunity to be mischievous she uses it, no matter if she gets a slap or rebuke. She just do it.

–Trust the process not the result : Babies love to trust the universe and its divine order that we have hard time to believe in. They trust the person holding, caring or hurting them. That’s why they are simple yet powerful.

–Ego – Less : They have no identity issues, can get along with almost anyone and don’t even care to boost their MAGIC they do everyday on everyone.

–Always in search of NEW : They always need newness in everything, the way they eat -they even try it upside down, on the go and want every old toy to have something new to offer else they refuse to play with it.

–Always playing even while working : Work is actually play for them that’s why even if that work doesn’t work they still have guts to play with something else that suit. We adults are so burdened with work. No ? Now get your answer yourself. why ?

–Magician : Last but not the least they are real magicians to turn any impossible task, possible. Learn something from them – You spoilt (including me) adults 😀

So, i don’t think i need to say more. Just UNLEARN and ACHIEVE.

Stay amazing !

Love :

Infinite Being ❤

I got fired #writingcontest

‘I got fired today, feeling low as never’ said Sugandha in her unusual tone, her muscles of the entire body ache as she said those words to herself.

‘Spending all day and night, to this never ending task, i am finally fired not from this job but from even the lives of the people i was devoted to’. It was sad sad day for her. Her entire hard work of years to make things happen gone wasted as those 3 words were spoken by her children and husband (whom she supported every single time, good or bad). Now, she was literally homeless, workless and full of memories she wants to run away from.

Things changed in just 3 words.  Wow ! Taking her bag of expectations she heads towards the river in her local area, opened the bag and just throw it away, deciding to never blame them again for her miserable state. She’s clearly not an object to be played or fool around and logically, it was she who invested herself happily then why this melodrama now. Let it end. Remember the Bhagwat Gita sutra told by her mother – ‘Karm kro, phal k chinta mat karo’ (Just do the karma, fruits are not in your hands. They may be in favor or turn against you). While throwing that bag she brought to that house on her wedding, she repeated the sutra, strengthening herself even more and then it was gone. Now it is her turn to flow with the flow of life without interruption. She is clueless to where to go but then she remind herself of – to flow with the flow, hence, took the first bus and boarded it without asking where it will go. Next day, she found herself in entirely new place – she never knew that place even exist in that state.

Picking up her necessary items, she moved to an Ashram nearby for free accommodation and food. She was hungry since yesterday. After the meal, she blessed the God and Goddess for that wonderful free treat and slept. The moment she gained her senses back, it was evening and everyone in that Ashram was busy doing their chores. She decided to meet the Head priest to ask if he needs her help in any chore. He directed him to join the disciples and others.

She did her task skillfully, helping everyone from child to an old man. She felt a sort of lovely feeling doing so.

Few days passed and she was still busy helping others until one fine day she was struck with an idea worth implementing. She went to every member of the Ashram for humble request if they are willing to join her in this idea of her. Sadly, she was laughed at and not taken seriously. It didn’t mind her, though as Bhagwat Gita sutra was fixed in her mind.

So, she went out to work herself.

Days passed and months gone by and she worked and worked until one day she got her MT business registered herself plus employ people to train and work under her for better service experiences.

Her Multi-Tasking business flourished and even IPO was launched successfully.

Seeing her photo in the newspaper, being interviewed and listed among the most successful self made business woman, she can’t hold back her tears.

Today, the only thing she teaches her employees is to work hard and fight back whenever they are fired for no reason (in any walk of life).

Being crazy is the only way to being sane 🙂

*The End*

P.S : Hope you enjoyed it. Wrote it as a part of writing contest.

Love :

Infinite Being ❤

One Indian Girl

It’s 11:14 pm by the clock, lovely night and my thoughts are going back and forth to the book i finished reading almost 6 hours back – One Indian Girl by Chetan Bhagat. Being a literature lover am not supposed (that’s what all feel about when they get to read classic, formal and polished writings) to read chetan, he’s nothing in front of Dickens, Bronte, Dan Brown etc sort of amazing first class writers but let me tell you that man got a heart with a head that observes it all. Observe ? What ? The impartial, sexist society and he’s maybe one  still he’s making a difference with his not so polished writings to wake up the masses regarding these issues.

As soon as i completed the book, i had an urge to talk to a friend who lend me this. She might be busy or what, can’t say but am sure to tell she was wrong when she said the book ends vaguely. I just loved the book, the concept author wants every man and woman of the universe to know and the end – absolutely amazing, an open end – full of possibilities of different kinds like life you never know if you have only one or various options 🙂

So, back to expressing why i recommend this particular book :

– Woman need not to be timid to take concrete decisions when it comes to their life.

– Feminism is a shit, Girls just open up and meet your needs. You’re human not an endangered species so as to need a special category or mention.

– Clarity is soooooo important in life, if you’re not clear, just avoid it or slow down.

– Marriage is not a baggage, its equal responsibility with fun. Remember that !

– Know thyself 🙂

No spoilers ahead, just go ahead and pick the book. Am sure you’ll love it. I loved it too 🙂

P.S : wrote yesterday 🙂

Love :

Infinite Being ❤

Daily Prompt: Patience

‘Kitna madhur, tera mera sath.. Lena hoga janam hume kaye – kaye baar’ song blurred out of the radio, late at night. The sound reached miles due to absolute darkness and tranquility. The aura it created was just amazing. The patience, the listener showed while he played the song every single night to re ensure himself of being one with his soul one day. To be divine and full of love with the painful wounds of his life. He’s growing each day and will definitely reach there with patience and persistence.

Love :

Infinite Being ❤

via Daily Prompt: Patience

Earth is really round in shape….

I don’t need pictures from NASA to get assured that Earth is round or flat in shape. Its for sure round as in life, sometimes you seem to be going nowhere except round and round like a vicious circle with no starting or end point. Even in spirituality, birth and death, death and birth, nothing new to be honest. Round is like a trap, on a day there’s hope to find light at the end of dark tunnel but then again just a glimpse of light and again a long, dark tunnel. This darkness bothers me a lot. It is like not an enemy still something you can’t figure out its structure, mass, volume, its end of course so, am still dwelling in the same aspect like an infant floating in the darkness of the mother’s womb. Don’t know where to go but still very sure that, day broad light is still waiting ahead, one more step and there’s plenty of miracles awaiting my presence or is it am trapped in the roundness of the Earth ?

Whatever, am writing again after long still trapped in scribbling on paper or on Infinite Being . Stay amazing everyone !

Love:

Infinite Being ❤

Fearless…

So, important a word in today’s age. We all have different kind of fears but most of them are the ones, other people have conditioned in us.

Yesterday, i saw a little girl chasing a stray dog touching him, calling him and playing like he’s her pet (It was not), dog tried to be patient with her mischiefs and choose the other way but she was so fearless to chase him and trying to touch him, seeing that her grandmother is alerting her continuously from a bench at a distance, she hardly cared and continue with her business. She was finally taken by her Grandma and instructed not to do this again.

Image : Mourguefile

I wonder that girl was so innocent and fearless that even dog showed a sense of patience with her changing his way. He was not at all looked annoyed. And she was not hurting him in any ways (just playing).

Then why her grandma need to inculcate a sort of fear in her mind regarding that stray dog ? Or is parents and grandparents are so overprotective defining our fears ? 

Boards Parinde :D

I remember the time I was in boards,
All hooked up in studies and loads,
Just to score that stupid 90% & above,
To make sure I’ve more to do and best to be done,
Now, at an age where it’s all a history,
I laugh out seeing the faces of Boards Parinde,
Who study and worry endlessly,
I won’t be telling them Do’s & Don’ts,
Just one thing before i go,

Believe in yourself and life will definitely be easy

That’s all I know.

That's how i felt when i attempt my boards 😀

I remember being on Tv fast when i reached my board class. Thanks to my parents that i hate watching Tv now 😀
What’s your experience being a Board Parinda ????

P.S : Boards are exams in Indian system that decides your field of higher studies and parents usually make a havoc of it every time.

Shalini

Who am I ?

It's time to know Who am I ?

The moment i gained consciousness, i had a strange experience. I was screaming loudly and clearly for others to hear me but they were still crying on my corpse which was lying contently on a mat. I was shocked to see that.

I wondered Who am I ? If not that body, name, identity, designation that this world gave me or i acquired. Then exactly who am I ?

Amid the confusion, someone patted my shoulder and said “You’re immortal and beautiful soul, that’s your identity”. By the time i was able to ask more it had left in that static state.

P.S : This topic is a part of Weekly Prompt given by @BlogChatter on twitter that conduct Blog Chats every Wednesday @ 8:30 p.m (IST).
Blog together, to blog better 🙂

Shalini

Dear 30 year Old me.

I believe when i’ll grow and reach 30 yrs of my this avatar.

We are not humans having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having human experience ~ Anonymous

I’ll be more mature, have a full fledged library and feel more secure in my life than am today. I’ll keep reading and teaching (one of the thing i’ll never give up), maybe by the time i have a loving spouse and cute kids to take care of but i will still love to find time for myself amid busyness. I’ll be able to cook octopus (Hahah.. Just kidding, my mom will kill if she read this) by then, who knows. Most importantly, I’ll be what i really dreamed of ‘It’s secret’ and will probably publish a book which am trying hard to complete.

Sometimes am not able to understand my parents, by then i’ll be thanking my mom & dad for all the efforts they put in my parenting. I still want to visit Mountains twice a year just to feel again and again the fun of reading at an altitude, maybe i’ll be that motivated to scale Mt. Everest and click myself from the top cuddling a book 😀

It will be fun to continue drinking coffee and reading greedily (every newspaper and magazines) on Sundays, refusing to work at all on that day. To be dusting off my books from my shelf and recollecting memories. I don’t know if Twitter will exist but i’ll miss the new buddies i bonded up which i initially and gradually made. I’ll still be following Mr. Ruskin Bond and Robin sir’s words. To listen to Eminem raps, Bieber’s soft tracks and dance madly to Every rock and roll songs. I’ll be looking back at my stupid, crazy photos and laugh at every single immature thing i did and doing in my 20s. So, dear 30 year old me don’t doubt or fear, you’ll just the same as you were with bit modifications installed 🙂

Let's grow fearlessly 🙂

What’s your opinion being 30 years old ? What you really want to be/ see yourself when you reach this age ?

Shalini

Letter of concern #WeeklyPrompt

The Earth dwellers,
Third planet,
Universe.

Dear Home sapiens,

Hope you’re good and working well. Writing this letter after so many years, i guess and am not sure if anyone else has written to you before or not. You all are so intellects and somewhat superior because you all have a mind which separates you from other beings. You know well that you’re spoiling the Earth with your dirty/ waste inventions and claiming superiority in every sphere, here actually, you lack the common sense that’s why your Ancestors always talked of peace of mind that you’re losing everyday, becoming more busier, passionate and excited to settle even on other planets, destroying the one which gave/gives you and the Generations – a shelter, means of living and love in the form of nature.
I know you’ll counter attack me by mentioning the advantages all this madness have brought you ‘The inventions have increased the life span , gives better connectivity, made us more luxurious and have even solved mysteries of the universe”. Well, let me tell you one thing that logic never works everywhere take any example of a miracle in your day to day life, by increasing the life span you’ve created more environmental disorder with your new technologies that has given rise to new and incurable diseases thereby, destroying the natural immunity among us, for what you said ‘Connectivity’ it has distanced you even from your inner self forget about the others. You’ve made your life a sort of facade which appears so beautiful but is too hollow from the core as you have no tuning with your own soul. With luxury you’ve increased the troubles by depending upon idiot boxes too much for entertainment, warmth, food etc. Every thing has lost it’s true value and as far as mysteries are solved whether that of planets or universe you’re simply wasting your time, why not to make the place better where you live, it’s people calmer than waging wars for a piece of land and make every single creature coexisting happier than conquering everything.

I don’t know how you’ll react but trust me you’re on a wrong way. You truly not care about your own race and mindlessly destroying the hundred and years old natural made creation called Mother Earth. Just do one thing take a deep breath, sit quietly and introspect for a minute or two to measure the damage you’ve already done + is doing to Our Earth. Looking forward for your reply on that.

Yours truly
One among You.

P.S : This post is a part of weekly prompt given by @BlogChatter who conduct Blog discussions on Twitter, every Wednesday @ 8:30p.m IST #Blogchatter 🙂

Shalini